Foster carers in Rhondda Cynon Taf are celebrating the vital contribution their own children play in the fostering journey.
As part of Children of Foster Carers Week (from October 13 to October 19), Foster Wales RCT carers are sharing stories of how their children have helped make those in their care feel happier, more welcome, safer, and more loved.
Some people say the potential impact on their children is one of the barriers to becoming a foster carer, but many children find benefits to being a part of a family who fosters. Seeing life from another’s perspective can be an enriching experience that can help a child learn and develop as an individual. Children also find they can develop their own bonds with children who are fostered in their home.
Ruth Hawkins shared her story of involving their children in the process of fostering through Foster Wales RCT:
“Our girls have adapted so well to fostering. They’ve shown patience, resilience, and a natural openness to welcoming others into our home. From the very beginning they’ve been curious, caring and eager to help, which has made the transition smoother for the children who come to live with us. We’ve seen them develop strong bonds quickly, offering comfort, laughter, and a sense of belonging. It’s been amazing to watch them grow more understanding and adaptable, learning that family can be shared and love only multiplies.
We’re most proud of how our girls have embraced fostering as part of who they are. They’ve shown such empathy and compassion – whether it’s sharing their toys, offering a hug at the right moment, or helping new children feel included in daily life. They’ve grown in confidence and maturity, learning to see the world through others’ eyes. Watching them step into the role of supportive siblings has been incredibly moving, and we couldn’t be prouder of how they’ve helped make fostering a truly whole-family experience.”
Ruth’s daughters Paisley and Willow also shared:
Paisley (age 7): “I feel very helpful and kind, and I like having other children in our house. The way I welcome a new child into our home and family is by showing them love, being a good sister to them and showing them around our home. I also help mammy and daddy buy any things we need for them.
The best thing about fostering is being able to make other children feel happy, and it makes me feel grateful for what we are doing. I think lots of other people should become foster carers and help all the children who need help and a home.”
Willow (age 13): “I feel really good that I’m able to help out and make a difference in these children’s lives. I love to make them feel warm and welcome by showing them love, letting them know that I’m always there for them and that no matter what, they are a part of our family. The best thing about fostering is being able to share my happy life and welcoming them into our loving family when they might need it most.
I feel like I’m making a positive impact in children’s lives and I feel very blessed to be a part of a fostering family. I want to encourage other families to become foster carers and let them know that through the good days and the bad days, it’s all totally worth it to know we are helping these children in every way we can.”
Councillor Sharon Rees, Cabinet Member for Social Care, said: “Fostering is a journey that involves the whole family, and the role of birth children is often one of the most powerful and inspiring parts of that story.
“In Rhondda Cynon Taf, we are proud to celebrate the incredible contribution of foster siblings. These are young people who show compassion, resilience, and a deep capacity for empathy. Their kindness helps children in foster care feel safe, welcome, and loved from the moment the arrive.
“Children like Paisley and Willow remind us that fostering is not just about providing a home, but about building a family where love and support can be shared. Their voices and experiences show how fostering can enrich the lives of everyone involved, helping to shape brighter futures and stronger communities.”
To find out more about becoming a foster carer in Rhondda Cynon Taf visit www.rct.fosterwales.gov.wales
Posted on 16/10/2025